Afternoon Folks.Another combined Life n Grimes today, mainly for 3 reasons !1. For the first time in a very long time, I managed to corrupt my Ubuntu pc. :( :( So have not had the computer running and do not like using the Kindle to do updates on here, as too bloody fiddly.2. I have been in the worst place in my life, even worse that the night Timothy was taken !But A visit to Val & Donald's on Saturday made things  a little brighter and got me thinking and some choices have now been made..3. Been busy with the plans and finally managing to talk to Lynne on Sunday, but more about all the above will be dealt with below....